Million Dollar Test

If you won a million dollars, what would you change in your life? What makes you happy? How much of that are you doing? What steps are you taking to reach that? What’s the first thing you need, small but a step nonetheless, to reach that goal? Move into friend circle or online group. Discuss.

Mean Love

What does love mean to you?Seriously?How do you knowwhat it is? Love at first sighttakes us far from where we were.Love and its mightdescribe who we are. But love is not all that’s involvednot all that’s dissolvedwhen we fall into anotherand fall out of ourselves. Giving, holding, inquiring, guiding?That’s how you experience it, no?How aboutContinue reading “Mean Love”

Wheelchair

How is your lifeYou ok?You really ok?I’ve been pretty stressed, actually but Something funny happened whilst having a beer withStarlightby my sidebeside a road Striving to find where I canthrivenot survivenot just be alive Yearning for a place whichfor meis somewhere I cangrow A fella rolls by in his wheelchairAnd he stares at usHis supportContinue reading “Wheelchair”

No

A few years ago, something happened in my mind which was not entirely available to conscious awareness. For most of my life I had been quite poor at managing money. Was never as bad as some as I became debt-free in 2002, but still not quite good enough by my own estimation – until recently.Continue reading “No”

Protection

The giant clamat the bottom of the oceannot looking outsidesunlight filtered through depths of water The giant clamignoring the universepacked snuggly insidesafe and sound But! Something wriggles alongflowing with colourssinewy and swiftflowing with the currents and sunlight The giant clam,how should he act?whatever he thinksno action can be taken Nothing apart from what he hasContinue reading “Protection”

Harmful Ideas

I’m curious as to how we define right and wrong, and good and bad. I’ve been coalescing on this idea of biology being the foundation of our moral, social, interpersonal and religious definitions of good and bad and what is ‘evil’… and I believe I’ve spotted a missing cog. I cannot understand how women andContinue reading “Harmful Ideas”

Learning

Several months into my Diploma of Counselling, one key point keeps poking me. It’s a pokey point from my language coaching days in Japan and one which, to me, reveals a vital element in our psychology. I’ve researched widely: occult practices, religion, socio-political ideology, education, and psychology. One key insight of sociology is that civilisationsContinue reading “Learning”

💕Teasing people I love and being teased by them💕

Litmus Test

A single, decisive indicator which reveals the true nature of a phenomenon. Can a gay man reasonably expect to survive unscathed in a particular country? Yes = administration of law and society is secular i.e. impartial and unbiased No = do no business with that country as secular values have not evolved. Biased, duplicitous andContinue reading “Litmus Test”